By New Jersey Singles Dating Service

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If you’re like many singles today, you might find the ever-changing dating scene to be very daunting and frustrating.  But as professional matchmakers with nearly 30 years of experience in the New Jersey dating scene, we’re here to shed light the process of matchmaking.  That’s right, we’re here to shed light on a better, more traditional, route to dating—professional matchmaking.

Not only does matchmaking provide a discreet, safe, and timesaving way of dating, but it’s also the most efficient way of meeting like-minded singles who share your dating expectations.  But before you delve in and make such an investment in your romantic life, you need to know what to look for in your matchmaker.

The opportunity to work side-by-side with a professional matchmaker should be both exciting and enlightening.  Yet with so many matchmakers in New Jersey, it can be difficult to separate the ones that work and the ones that don’t.  How do you choose a professional matchmaker that will help you define and achieve your dating goals?  With thousands of happy clients and successful introductions, New Jersey Singles knows a thing or two about love and matchmaking, and we’re here to share our knowledge and expertise with you.

If you’re looking for a professional matchmaker in New Jersey, we’ve got you covered.  Follow these simple tips to ensure you select a genuine, passionate, and experienced matchmaker that will help you find the compatible partner you’ve been searching for.

1. They must be involved in the interviewing and matchmaking process.

Choose a matchmaker that involves themselves in the interview and matching process.  Your matchmaker should meet with you at their office so they can get to know you and gain a better understanding of who you are and what you desire in a partner.  This is the first and most crucial part of the matchmaking process.

2. Choose a medium-sized company.

Choose a medium-sized matchmaking company over a large one.  A lot of times, when a matchmaking company becomes a national chain or franchise, you become more of a sales quota rather than a valued client.  Medium-sized companies truly care about their clients and will have a better understanding of their client database.  Not only do they understand their client database better but also each individual client and everything they’re looking for.  You’re not a number with a medium-sized company but rather a valued client.

3. Choose a company with fewer employees.

Choose an NJ matchmaker who has fewer employees to ensure that what you pay for a membership goes directly into the search for your matches, not their pockets.

4. Go with someone with many years of experience.

You want to choose matchmaker that has been in the business for at least 15 years.  Why?  Because many matchmaking agencies have recently opened but are not really qualified and experienced in the making compatible matches.  A company with 15-plus years speaks for itself in proving that it’s credible and has satisfied, high quality clients.  New Jersey Singles Dating Service has been in the business of love for nearly 30 years and has the knowledge, expertise, and matchmaking intuition it takes to create truly compatible, long-lasting relationships.

5. Choose a company with a balanced age/gender client database.

When choosing a matchmaker, you want to choose a company with a balanced age/gender client database.  Ask them about their ratio of men to women and what age group compromises the majority of their clients.  It should be 50/50, and they should cater to your age group.

6. Choose a matchmaker with an on-hold feature.

Always (and we mean ALWAYS), choose a matchmaker that allows you to put your membership on hold.  This will allow you to freeze your membership when you meet someone you like and you want get to know each other better.  For example, here at New Jersey Singles Dating Service, we allow members to put their memberships on hold while they get to know a potential match.

We’re here to cater to you on your journey to love; in fact, we love to hear that our clients want to put their memberships on hold because it means we did our job and made a compatible match.

7. Choose a company with clear policies and prices.

Matchmaking is an investment in your love life, but it should be smart and straightforward.  You want to choose a matchmaker that isn’t afraid to discuss their prices and policies with you.

Here at New Jersey Singles, we’re very transparent and upfront with our policies and prices.  We treat you like a valued client, not just a sales prospect.  In fact, we invite potential clients to come in and discuss everything in person.  We offer genuine singles a complimentary, in-depth consultation with our matchmakers where they can get to know New Jersey Singles, the way we work, our prices and policies, as well as anything else they want to know before deciding if we’re the right fit for their dating life.  We take every measure possible to ensure our clients are comfortable, relaxed, and confident in our matchmaking services.

8. Go with someone with a nice presence in the city.

You always want to choose a matchmaking agency that has an office in your city or a nearby town.  Many of these ‘so-called’ matchmakers today claim they have multiple locations but only have one or two offices with actual databases.  Here at New Jersey Singles, we have four well-established offices in Bridgewater, Colts Neck, Lawrenceville, and Saddle Brook to accommodate to our valued clients across the state.

If you have any questions or need assistance in your love life, please contact our passionate matchmakers here at New Jersey Singles Dating Service today and we’ll be more than happy to assist you with anything you need.

Call 1 (888) 417-0020 to book your 100% FREE matchmaking consultation with Jersey’s premier matchmaking service today.  We’re ready and eager to help you find your perfect match! ?

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